Re-story your life

No one is perfect. We all have some issues in our life. For some of us, it was the dysfunctional family that we grew up in. For others, it's bad relationships that we've been in as adults. On some level, we are all dealing with something.

Some people are better at hiding what's going on than others. They're life is like a nicely painted house with a manicured lawn, but on the inside, their foundation is cracked and their doors and windows don't open and close.

What causes these issues? Generally, things that we've heard. Society tells women that they need to be the perfect size. Our national obsession with fashion has gone so far that even the "perfect" models are air brushed to become... more perfect.

For others, it's the voice of their parents telling them that they would either amount to nothing resulting in low self esteem. Others had parents that pushed them to perfection and to obsessive control over area in their lives.

Women are told that they must have sex in order to keep an man. Men are told that they have to sleep with as many women as possible to be a man.

There are so many voices telling us stories about how we need to be, and none of it is really solving the real problem.

Maybe... just maybe, we need to stop listening to the stories that others tell us about how life should be lived. Maybe, we should re-story our lives by listening to something else.

Maybe, instead of trying to live our story, we should live God's story. What does that mean?

3 Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven, where Christ sits in the place of honor at God’s right hand. 2 Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth. 3 For you died to this life, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God. 4 And when Christ, who is your life, is revealed to the whole world, you will share in all his glory.
5 So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity, lust, and evil desires. Don’t be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world. 6 Because of these sins, the anger of God is coming. 7 You used to do these things when your life was still part of this world. 8 But now is the time to get rid of anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander, and dirty language. 9 Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds. 10 Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like him. 11 In this new life, it doesn’t matter if you are a Jew or a Gentile, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbaric, uncivilized, slave, or free. Christ is all that matters, and he lives in all of us.
12 Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13 Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. 14 Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.
16 Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 17 And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father. (Colossians 3:3-17 New Living Translation)

Let's start this week by stop listening to the stories that others tell us about our lives. Let us re-story our lives based upon what God says!